The internet, a space often celebrated for connection and empowerment, can also become a breeding ground for cruelty. For journalist and writer Melissa Blake, the harsh reality of online bullying has been all too personal. Despite her inspiring essays on disability, relationships, and pop culture that resonate with readers worldwide, she has been subjected to vicious insults targeting her appearance.
At 38 years old, Melissa has faced taunts likening her to a “blobfish” and a “potato with a face.” These vile comments, while hurtful, did not break her spirit. Instead, they fueled a powerful and public response, showing the world what resilience truly looks like.
Living with Freeman-Sheldon Syndrome
Melissa was born with Freeman-Sheldon syndrome, a rare genetic condition caused by a mutation that affects cellular development. The syndrome often results in physical characteristics such as a smaller, “pursed” mouth and reduced nose cartilage, alongside other complications. Throughout her life, Melissa has undergone approximately 25 surgeries and uses a wheelchair for mobility.
These visible differences have made her a target for cruel comments from those who judge by appearances rather than character. In a recent Twitter post, Melissa shared the harsh reality of the abuse she endures. Some commenters likened her to a “blobfish,” while others suggested she should be banned from sharing her photos online because she was “too ugly.”
Challenging Ableism with Courage
Melissa’s decision to confront the trolls came from a place of empowerment. She explained on Twitter, “People wonder why I’ve struggled so much with self-acceptance when it comes to how I look and our society’s notion of what ‘beautiful’ is. It’s because of comments like these — comments that dismiss me and deem me unworthy.”
She highlighted the larger issue at play: the ableism faced by individuals with disabilities. “This is just one more example of the type of ableism that people with disabilities face every day, and it’s something I’m constantly trying to change,” she added.
Rather than retreat in the face of hate, Melissa decided to take an unconventional approach. In a bold act of defiance, she posted three selfies with the caption: “During the last round of trollgate, people said that I should be banned from posting photos of myself because I’m too ugly. So I’d just like to commemorate the occasion with these three selfies…”
A Viral Response
Melissa’s comeback tweet struck a chord with thousands. It quickly went viral, amassing over 272,000 likes on Twitter. Support poured in from all corners of the internet, with fans praising her bravery and applauding her strength.
“Melissa Blake is a queen,” one user wrote. “You are so inspiring and beautiful inside and out,” another added.
